College Graduations: Round 1 — Virginia Tech!

Scott - baby grinI can’t believe it. I’m not sure where the time went because, honest to goodness, it seems like yesterday I gave birth to my 8 lb 14 oz bundle of joy. I remember those first sweet grins and hoped he’d have thousands more.
(He did)

I remember Scott’s first birthday. Interestingly enough, his favorite gift was also one of his first words: Ball.

Scott - baby ballLooking back, that was God preparing me for the hundreds (thousands?) of hours I’d spend in bleachers. This kid should’ve come with a stadium cushion.

This kids was destined to be a Hokie. Yes, Steve and I are VT grads, and my dad is a VT grad. Of course our wardrobes included plenty of Chicago maroon and orange, but we never pressured him to attend one of the largest universities in Virginia.

In fact, we encouraged him to go to a smaller school. When he was offered a baseball scholarship to play at St Andrews College, he accepted it and spent a year in Laurenburg, NC. It was a great experience, but we knew he’d eventually find his way back to Blacksburg.

And now it’s time for Scott to find his way in the world.

Susan, Sarah, Scott & Steve at graduation

Many of us are familiar with Proverbs 22:6 in the KJV, “train up a child …” but listen to the NLT,

Teach your children to choose the right path, and
when they are older, they will remain upon it.

Scott and Molly at graduationScott has made some very good choices and, like the rest of us, has made some bonehead ones. But he’s learned valuable lessons in the good and the bad, and we’re proud of the man he’s becoming. We’re excited for the career path that lies ahead, and are so thankful for the doors the Lord has opened for him.

He’s excited and thankful too, as evidenced by the recent grins.

What advice do you have for a young man beginning his career?

Nothing is off-limits: money, relationships, health, career, church/ministry, etc. You never know when your words might make a difference in his life!

BTW I’m away at the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writer’s Conference this week! I’m preoccupied with courses, friends and coffee (in no particular order), so I’ll be a little late responding to comments. But THANK YOU for sharing your words of wisdom! I’ll be compiling your comments and sticking them in his Bible :)  

5 Reasons to go with us to Guatemala

The Hoodies and I just wrapped up Beth Moore’s study of the book of James, Mercy Triumphs. I’m not sure where to start with favorite verses, but I don’t have to look further than chapter one to find one of the most convicting:

Prayer visit in Guatemala City

Prayer visit in Guatemala City

Religion that God our Father accepts as
pure and faultless is this:
to look after orphans and widows
in their distress

and to keep oneself from
being polluted by the world.
James 1:27

You don’t need me to tell you how to keep from being polluted by the world. God’s Word has plenty to say about that. But you might be interested in an opportunity to help distressed families.

Come with us to Guatemala! [Read more...]

A Monday Pause ~ Looking After

James 1:27, Look after widows and orphans in their distress

Heavenly Father, we thank You for the blessing of family.
We all have our own quirky dysfunctions,
but You’ve mixed us together to love each other.
We also know we have a responsibility to look after
those who don’t have families of their own.

Help us to step out of our comfort zones and
love some folks who need the connection of family today.
And would You please bless those of us
who are separated for whatever reasons?

We look forward to the Day when we’re all together,
rejoicing in Your presence through
Christ Jesus, our Lord,
Amen.

Join me on Wednesday for a practical way you can live out James 1:27.

I know Mother’s Day was hard for many of you. I’m asking the Lord to grant you a special measure of His grace today.

How can I pray for you this week?

Keeping The Fire Burning

Is anyone watching the latest season of Survivor? I don’t watch every season but my kids are fans, and “Fans vs Favorites” intrigued me. I enjoy the challenges, but not all the drama at camp. I tend to like the quieter players who get along with everyone. It’s the Matthew 5:9-peacemaker coming out in me ;)

Campfire by the lake

Image courtesy of Evgeni Dinev, FreeDigitalPhotos.net

I like watching the players build their shelter, establish alliances and live in tight quarters. Some outdoorsy person usually steps up and dazzles everyone with a critical skill: the ability to make fire.

My dad is one of those people. He took us camping every summer, and this Eagle Scout lived by the Boy Scout motto: Be Prepared. He always made sure we had matches and kindling, but we also knew that he could start a fire with his bare hands if he needed to!

Starting the fire was one of the first things we did when we set up camp, and we rekindled it when we woke up each morning.

I thought about that as I studied 2 Timothy.

“… I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God which is in you …”
~2 Timothy 1:6b (NIV)

I love the NASB’s wording, “kindle afresh” and thought about [Read more...]

A Monday Pause ~ Fan Into Flame

Fan into flame the gift of God, 2 Tim 1:6b

Heavenly Father, for many of us, we begin this week TIRED.
We have so many demands on us, and
we’re easily exhausted on every level:
Physically,
Emotionally, and
Spiritually.

Lord, give us the rest we need but
help us to remember that what we really need is
YOU.

Our first priority is to spend time in Your presence.
You and You alone have what we need to survive.
As we walk with You, help us to remember
we have a responsibility to
“fan into flame” the spiritual gifts
You’ve given each of us.

We want to be good stewards of those gifts this week
as we seek You and walk in Your ways.
In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.

I don’t know about y’all, but I’ve been fighting a mean head cold and I’m not at the top of my game. I’m pressing hard into the Father and hope you are too.

I hope you’ll join me on Wednesday as I share some reflections from 2 Timothy. I just finished teaching through this short but powerful letter, and will be sharing practical ways to “fan into flame the gift of God.”

In the meantime, how can I pray for YOU?

First Fridays ~ Cathy Baker

Cathy Baker

Cathy Baker

I’m excited to feature my friend Cathy Baker this month. Cathy lives in Upstate SC and we connected through one of my sweet friends in that area. She’s a writer, a nature lover, and a Bible study leader in her community.

This Clemson fan is married to “Hokie Hubby” Brian, so she sprinkles in a little Chicago Maroon with that all that orange. I can’t wait to meet her in “real life” this month at the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writer’s Conference!

A Quiet Night in My Own Heart

Mary Slessor was a young single woman who left Scotland at the turn of the century to go to a part of Africa that was infested with disease and indescribable danger. But she had an indomitable spirit and kept going when lesser men and women broke down, ran, and never came back. Once, after a particularly draining day, she found herself trying to sleep in a crude jungle hut. Of that night she wrote:

“I am not very particular about my bed these days, but as I lay on a few dirty sticks laid across and covered with a litter of dirty corn-shells, with plenty of rats and insects, three women and an infant three days old alongside, and over a dozen sheep and goats and cows outside, you don’t wonder that I slept little. But I had such a comfortable quiet night in my own heart.” (Italics mine) [Read more...]

More Than Meets The Eye

Ravenel Bridge, Charleston SCCharleston, SC is one of my favorite places. This charming southern city isn’t too crowded, is easy to navigate, and has one of the coolest bridges I’ve ever seen. (Yes, that’s the engineering nerd coming out in me.)

A group of us recently went down for a “girlfriends’ getaway.” We used to play on a tennis team together, but that was before a myriad of life issues got in the way. Now we just talk, eat, shop, talk, eat, watch movies, talk, eat, hang out …

I arrived early and had some time to kill before we checked into our house on IOP, so I did something I love to do: drove across the Ravenel Bridge into town, and walked along the Battery.

Rainbow Row, Charleston SC

If you’ve never visited Charleston, you might envision [Read more...]

A Monday Pause ~ God Sees The Heart

Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart. 1 Sam 16:7b

Heavenly Father, we’re excited to start a new week.
We’re closing out April and about to begin May.
For many of us, it’s one of the most beautiful times of the year.

As we see all the beauty around us in nature,
we confess that we’re often attracted to
other beautiful things.
Or at least they seem beautiful to us.

We’ve learned the hard way not to make judgments
based on outward appearances.
Give us eyes to see as You see, and
help us not to overlook what is
precious to You.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

I hope you’ll join me on Wednesday as I continue this thought:
things aren’t always what they seem.

How can I pray for you this week?

Pondering The Boston Marathon Tragedy

My head still spins over the explosions at the Boston Marathon. Like the rest of America, I’m trying to wrap my brain around WHY anyone would do something so heinous.

As the story unfolds in the weeks to come, we’ll learn more about these two young men and take small peeks into their psyches. Regardless of any links to terrorist groups, there seems to be a recurrent theme in attacks such as these:

Hatred.

Think back to some of the attacks we’ve faced in recent years. Some were rooted in mental illness or instability, but others can be traced to something radical, usually a political agenda or a religious belief.

American FlagHere in America, we’re stunned. The land of the free and the home of the brave should be a safe place, but it’s not.

Our friends around the world grieve with us, but don’t seem as surprised. It’s a way of life for many of them, particularly those in the Middle East.

I read the Jerusalem Post on a fairly regular basis and this op-ed piece opened my eyes: [Read more...]

A Monday Pause ~ Devoted to Prayer

Devote yourselves to prayer, Colossians 4:2a

Heavenly Father, we begin this week praying for
those affected by last week’s tragedies.
We lift up the people in Boston and Waco.
For those who’ve been injured, we pray for healing.
For those who’ve lost loved ones, we ask for comfort.
For those who’re serving and caring for them,
we ask for a double portion of Your strength,
mercy and compassion.

Lord, we confess that we can’t wrap our minds around things like
heinous acts of terrorism,
suffering, or the
loss of innocent lives.
Such things are beyond our ability to comprehend.

But You haven’t called us to comprehend them;
You’ve called us to serve, love and pray.
We devote ourselves to prayer this week.
Keep us sensitive to the prompting of Your Spirit,
through Christ Jesus our Lord,
Amen.

I hope you’ll join me on Wednesday as I share some thoughts about the tragedies last week, as well as recommend a compelling book that sheds light on terrorism. Don’t miss it!

What are some ways the Lord has prompted you to pray recently?
How can I pray for YOU this week?

Becoming A Joyful Crash Test Dummy

It started last Wednesday night. I finished formatting a post and stepped away to start dinner. When I came back, the admin panel on my website was locked up.

Hour Glass“No problem,” I thought. I clicked the login tab and waited for the page to load. But the page never loaded.

It ran and ran and ran.
And timed out and timed out and timed out.

I exhausted all of my troubleshooting abilities, called a techie friend and did some more troubleshooting. By then it was past time for dinner, so I decided to wait until the morning and call GoDaddy. “It’s probably something simple,” I told Steve. “One of those frustrating things I’m suppose to ‘count as joy.’”

Early Thursday morning I called their tech support to get their simple solution, except there wasn’t a simple solution. For 2 hours and 45 minutes we troubleshot. [Read more...]

A Monday Pause ~ Trials

Count it all joy my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds - James 1:2

Heavenly Father, we come to you this morning with
all sorts of things on our minds.
It’s a new week with new challenges, and
we have no idea what to expect.
You, however, DO.

Before time began, You knew what this week would hold
for each of us.
Remind us to keep a good attitude,
even be JOYFUL (!)
when things get crazy and frustrating.
We want to walk in obedience and grace, and
we can only do that in Your strength.
Through Christ Jesus, our Lord, Amen.

Last week ended in a good bit of frustration for me.
Join me on Wednesday to commiserate!

In the meantime, how can I pray for you this week?

Pondering Psalm 23

“The Lord is my Shepherd…”

Susan in a slump and pondering Psalm 23The familiar words of Psalm 23 breathe life into my weary soul. It’s a standby for anytime I need to recharge my spiritual batteries because of something profound: It’s one of the few passages in scripture where we can see each of the Old Testament names for God:

  • Jehovah Jireh (Provider),
  • Jehovah Mekaddishkem (Sanctifier),
  • Jehovah Nissi (Banner),
  • Jehovah Rapha (Healer),
  • Jehovah Rohi (Shepherd),
  • Jehovah Sabaoth (Lord of Hosts),
  • Jehovah Shalom (Peace),
  • Jehovah Shammah (Companion), and
  • Jehovah Tsidkenu (Righteousness).

As you read through the verses, some of the references are obvious but others take a little pondering, which I enjoy. Something else worth pondering is the humility of the Lord Jesus, and that He would refer to Himself as the Good Shepherd (John 10:10-16).

One of the lowliest of all jobs, shepherding [Read more...]